HOW TO AVOID BROKEN RELATIONSHIP AND HEART BREAK

Relationship is the way two or more people relate to themselves. This is a general explanation of the word. But on a personal note, it should be referred to the way man and woman relate. A lot of things can bring about relationship between the opposite sex, the need for protection, the need for comfort, the need for passion, the need for growth, the need to procreate etc.

As there are many needs that prompt a relationship, there are equally many things that can bring about wrong relationship. When a relationship is entered into with a wrong footing, surely the aim must be defeated. That is, the need would not be fulfilled. The following are some of the ways that can lead to a bad relationship which would eventually break down.

(1) Intellectual calculation: when one is too calculative as regards things the person would get from a relationship, without at the same time make provision for what to give to sustain the relationship. This may be a bad beginning that may lead to break up.

(2) Imposition: Relationship is a thing of the mind. And the affinity in relationship is latent; therefore onlookers do not know its magnitude. Imposing a person on the other in relationship is as good as building a collapsible relationship. Imposed relationship seldom stand test of time.

(3) Greed: When the need for relationship is not predicated on give and take, as well as to compliment the other, then such intention is a bridge to breakable relationship. Relationship is full of surprises and whoever that’s not ready for a share of such is greedy. People in relationship must be ready to bear when expectations are not met.

(4) Unseen Forces: Unseen forces may drive people into unplanned union. Such unions can be likened to association of people in an informal organization. An informal organization is one in which members belong because there is an aim to achieve. And once the aim is achieved, the organization comes to an end. Only on few occasions can such association last longer.

(5) Trivialities: Mundane and trivial issues may be the reason some people go into relationship. Trivial issue can be such things as the color of the skin of the other person. The physical size of the other. Even in some cases some people go into relationships because of the voice of the other person without considering other things that matter.

An example of relationship that broke up was those of Roy Roger and the presidential candidate that ran against Obama.

One may be forced to ask what then to look out for in a relationship. We are committed to offering free relationship guide to our readers on request. So, feel free to ask.

WHAT IS COMPATIBILITY

Compatibility is often associated with relationship mostly as it relates to human beings. There are traces of compatibility in other spheres of life, it always involve mutual cohabitation.

Compatibility is traditionally known to be the ability of people or things to live together without problems. One can liken compatibility, to affinity in relationship. Affinity on the other hand is the relationship between two people or things that have similar qualities, structure or features. From the look of things, one can dwell much on affinity when explaining compatibility.

The facts in the definitions are that for there to be compatibility, the two parties must be of the same structure. The similarity in qualities must be noticeable. But all these qualities are are not perceivable through human sense organs of eyes, hands and ears. They are more or less spiritual or abstract in nature. Abstract qualities are difficult to understand because different people have different views about them. Compatibility is not an exception. But because compatibility in human beings concerns the very essence of living it must be studied seriously. Some of the ways to understand compatibility are:

1. Observing relationships that are fairly stables

2. Asking questions on what works in relationship

3. Avoiding trivialities when going into relationship

4. Striving to be self-reliant in order to avoid going into a relationship for selfish interest

Compatibility as it concerns human happiness must be seen as a personal obligation. That is to avoid going and coming out of relationship, if necessary to know every fact of compatibility. Compatibility brings happiness in the family. Compatibility prolongs life. Compatibility is bliss.

HOW TO IDENTIFY A COMPATIBLE RELATIONSHIP

Compatibility can be said to be the bedrock of good living between couples. When things are going wrong in a relationship people are quick to believe that such relationship is not compatible. This is why everybody needs to know the elements that can make a relationship compatible before building one.

A good number of things show what a relationship would be like: These are positive things that discerning people need to know as far as relationship is concerned. A good way of learning this is through watching what goes well for others. What this means is that exemplary relationships should be studied to know what the secret was. Attention! Compatibility does not mean material well being. It is more than meet the ordinary eyes as regards material acquisition. So, compatibility is more of the heart than of materiality.

There abound relationship counselors who have taken pains to understand various failed relationship and come up with things that work in making relationship compatible. In arriving at things that work in relationship, one needs to practice such before finally embracing it.

There is a big relationship in compatibility study, this is the principle of one over four, it means that every human being is compatible to one in every four of the other sex. When further broken down, it shows that one is compatible to ten out of forty people of the opposite sex.

The full explanation on things that make a relation compatible is the book written by this author. Furthermore, you should press it upon yourself that one should not exploit or be exploited in a compatible relationship.

ATTENDING TO A JILTED FRIEND

ATTENDING TO A JILTED FRIEND

A jilted friend is one whose trust in somebody in love or relationship was betrayed. Such betrayal must be quite deep to pass for jilt.

Somebody that has fallen victim of such betrayal most of the time is mentally and times physically destabilized. Close friends and relations are always confided in for solutions on how to overcome the trauma. Certain individuals try to hide some incidence from friends and relations, more especially if there was forewarning from those people. But the exhibited attitude would give such people out. In some cases unconscious exclamation or self blame may lead to the whole story.

Being jilted can only be painful and noticeable in affairs and relationship. These touch the core of every human being.

The duties of close relations in times like these are plenty. Because the effect to the affected person may lead to lose of concentration at work, or absent mindedness in presence of people, people concerned have to be very much accommodating and compassionate.

Concerned persons can show the passion to help in many ways. A friend of a jilted person can be of help through being in touch to make sure the jilted person is alert to current situation; this is to avoid falling into absent minded mood. Another way to be of help is through offering alterative to the bad situation at hand. Like telling the jilted person that many human beings are still learning who will be ready to offer comfort at careful scrutiny. One can also be of help through relating cases of those who passed through such situations and were able to gather themselves. And of some who could not bear it because there were no persons to be of real help.

The jilted person must also be reminded that life must go on even after such nasty experience. Equally such a person must be reminded that every body has over a thousand matching partners and that such person should go for the remaining 999999 persons, with caution.

WHAT IS COMPATIBILITY

Compatibility is often associated with relationship mostly as it relates to human beings. There are traces of compatibility in other spheres of life, it always involve mutual cohabitation.

Compatibility is traditionally known to be the ability of people or things to live together without problems. One can liken compatibility, to affinity in relationship. Affinity on the other hand is the relationship between two people or things that have similar qualities, structure or features. From the look of things, one can dwell much on affinity when explaining compatibility.

The facts in the definitions are that for there to be compatibility, the two parties must be of the same structure. The similarity in qualities must be noticeable. But all these qualities are are not perceivable through human sense organs of eyes, hands and ears. They are more or less spiritual or abstract in nature. Abstract qualities are difficult to understand because different people have different views about them. Compatibility is not an exception. But because compatibility in human beings concerns the very essence of living it must be studied seriously. Some of the ways to understand compatibility are:

1. Observing relationships that are fairly stables

2. Asking questions on what works in relationship

3. Avoiding trivialities when going into relationship

4. Striving to be self-reliant in order to avoid going into a relationship for selfish interest

Compatibility as it concerns human happiness must be seen as a personal obligation. That is to avoid going and coming out of relationship, if necessary to know every fact of compatibility. Compatibility brings happiness in the family. Compatibility prolongs life. Compatibility is bliss.

COMPATIBILITY TABLE

There is a laid down rule on compatibility. The grouping is according to the months of the year- simply called the Zodiac Signs. An individual must belong to a particular pair, that is , has must be born on a particular day of the year. There is Primary and Secondary compatibility. Those in this group enjoy bliss in their relationship. It is called examplery union. Those in Secondary comatibility live on compromise; they have more on the other side as regards their partners.

For example, somebody born on the 1st of January, has the following pair;

First and foremost, he is a Capricorn: 21 December - 19 January.

Primary Compatibility: The following are most campatible to the Capricorn person;

1. 21 April - 21 May.................... Tauru
2. 21 August - 21 September.........Virgo
3. 21 Decemder - 19 January........Capricorn.

Secondary Compatitibility: They are as follows;

1. 21 March - 21 April...............Aries
2. 22 September - 22 October.....Libra
3. 21 June - 20 July.......................Cancer.

Therefore, people born on the 1st of January should restrict themselves to the above list in matters of relationship. Anything outside the above would result in marriage of convenience. You have more to choose from. Enjoy Bliss.

Everybody has a birthday

It is a known fact that each human being living on earth was born on a day, in a month and in a year. And each day in a month of every year has some influence on anybody born on it. Religion or association does not prevail over such influence, either for or against. So, ones birthday to a very large extent decide peoples destiny.

Therefore, the birthday guides ones fortunes and misfortunes.