Relationship is the way two or more people relate to themselves. This is a general explanation of the word. But on a personal note, it should be referred to the way man and woman relate. A lot of things can bring about relationship between the opposite sex, the need for protection, the need for comfort, the need for passion, the need for growth, the need to procreate etc.
As there are many needs that prompt a relationship, there are equally many things that can bring about wrong relationship. When a relationship is entered into with a wrong footing, surely the aim must be defeated. That is, the need would not be fulfilled. The following are some of the ways that can lead to a bad relationship which would eventually break down.
(1) Intellectual calculation: when one is too calculative as regards things the person would get from a relationship, without at the same time make provision for what to give to sustain the relationship. This may be a bad beginning that may lead to break up.
(2) Imposition: Relationship is a thing of the mind. And the affinity in relationship is latent; therefore onlookers do not know its magnitude. Imposing a person on the other in relationship is as good as building a collapsible relationship. Imposed relationship seldom stand test of time.
(3) Greed: When the need for relationship is not predicated on give and take, as well as to compliment the other, then such intention is a bridge to breakable relationship. Relationship is full of surprises and whoever that’s not ready for a share of such is greedy. People in relationship must be ready to bear when expectations are not met.
(4) Unseen Forces: Unseen forces may drive people into unplanned union. Such unions can be likened to association of people in an informal organization. An informal organization is one in which members belong because there is an aim to achieve. And once the aim is achieved, the organization comes to an end. Only on few occasions can such association last longer.
(5) Trivialities: Mundane and trivial issues may be the reason some people go into relationship. Trivial issue can be such things as the color of the skin of the other person. The physical size of the other. Even in some cases some people go into relationships because of the voice of the other person without considering other things that matter.
An example of relationship that broke up was those of Roy Roger and the presidential candidate that ran against Obama.
One may be forced to ask what then to look out for in a relationship. We are committed to offering free relationship guide to our readers on request. So, feel free to ask.
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