Compatibility is often associated with relationship mostly as it relates to human beings. There are traces of compatibility in other spheres of life, it always involve mutual cohabitation.
Compatibility is traditionally known to be the ability of people or things to live together without problems. One can liken compatibility, to affinity in relationship. Affinity on the other hand is the relationship between two people or things that have similar qualities, structure or features. From the look of things, one can dwell much on affinity when explaining compatibility.
The facts in the definitions are that for there to be compatibility, the two parties must be of the same structure. The similarity in qualities must be noticeable. But all these qualities are are not perceivable through human sense organs of eyes, hands and ears. They are more or less spiritual or abstract in nature. Abstract qualities are difficult to understand because different people have different views about them. Compatibility is not an exception. But because compatibility in human beings concerns the very essence of living it must be studied seriously. Some of the ways to understand compatibility are:
1. Observing relationships that are fairly stables
2. Asking questions on what works in relationship
3. Avoiding trivialities when going into relationship
4. Striving to be self-reliant in order to avoid going into a relationship for selfish interest
Compatibility as it concerns human happiness must be seen as a personal obligation. That is to avoid going and coming out of relationship, if necessary to know every fact of compatibility. Compatibility brings happiness in the family. Compatibility prolongs life. Compatibility is bliss.
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